Before Perhentian Trip

I'm so so looking forward to this trip. What i can do at this moment is fantasizing how the island looks like. It might not as nice as my dream island, but i believe it can still fulfill my passion for islands. (Because don't ever have a chance to go to Bora, so go for a cheap cheap island 1st la ).

It makes me recall what i experienced in Redang few years back. I guess it should be not much different from that as we are still going to the same place marine park for snorkeling. The only difference is we are elder. Time has past so fast...

I wish to see anemone fish, baby shark, sea turtle and corals in underwater world, sandy beach, clear water, blue sand, night scene with a lot of stars and shooting stars in the sky. Yeah..is shooting stars! It was the first time i saw shooting stars. Unbelievable I was so lucky to see many shooting stars in my first time. Imagine you are lying on the beach watching to the sky at night with your beloved.

This time I'm not going to take the 7 hours journey bus to reach there. Cannot forget the experience in the bus, it was so tired and the air condition is cold like hell. I'm smarter then, prefer to take a flight, i think it takes about 1 hour to reach Kota Bharu Airport. But what jet I'm going to take? is Fireflyz!!! A bit scary, no confident as it is a smaller plane which is Fokker...I suppose this is my first and the last time to take fireflyz because i feel that they have a very bad booking system. The reason why i select it is because they provided a cheaper promotion at first than MAS. When we start booking the air ticket, it shows only 1 air ticket available.In fact, there are 4 persons booking on the same time at different locations. We thought it maybe allow us to book the tickets one by one. So Seah managed to book 1 ticket successfully. The coming 3 persons couldn't book any tickets as all the tickets are sold out and the one that Seah booked was the last ticket. Gosh...! What should we do with only one ticket which is not refundable? Finally we decided to take the separate flight with our friends. It sounds funny because we are taking economic flight while my friends are taking MAS for the same value?! Another thing which i don't like is Fireflyz never send any itinerary for the passengers at once. I have to call to the service centre to ask for it. They can also change the schedule easily by just sending an sms to inform you. I wonder what would happen if they cancelled the flight. Do they compensate to the passangers who have spent their money on the trip?

Anyway, hope we will reach there safe and sound and let's see what i can write after Perhentian Trip. But i will definitely recommend Redang is truly a good place for relax..i will surely go there once again!

I'm leaving on a jet plane...

Jayden 满两个月了！

他一天一天的长大，也证明时间过得很快，还是老样子，怕洗澡，闹喝奶，不过现在开始懂得说“昂格”，蛮好玩，每天放工回家后最开心就是看见他！

Personal Development

Don't compare yourself with anyone in this world, if you compare you are insulting yourself.

No one will manufacture a lock without a key, similarly god won't give problems without solutions.

Life laughs at you when you are unhappy, life smiles at you when you are happy, life salutes you when you make others happy.

Every successful person has a painful story, every painful story has a successful ending, accept the pain and get ready for success.

Easy is to judge the mistakes of others, difficult is to recognize our own mistakes, it is easier to protect your feet with slippers than to cover the earth with carpet.

No one can go back and change a bad beginning, but anyone can start now and create a successful ending.

If a problem can be solved, no need to worry about it, if a problem cannot be solved what is the use of worrying?

If you miss an opportunity don't fill the eyes with tears, it will hide another better opportunity in front of you.

"Changing the face" can change nothing, but "facing the change" can change everything, don't complaint about others, change yourself if you want peace.

Mistakes are painful when they happen, but year's later collection of mistakes is called experience, which leads to success.

Be bold when you loose and be calm when you win, heated gold becomes ornament, beaten copper becomes wires, depleted stone becomes statue. So the more pain you get in life you become more valuable.

爱值得主动追求

如果你是男生，遇见自己心爱的女生，你会主动追求对方吗？相反的，现代女生会主动追求男生吗？

我相信大部分的男生都会比较主动，现代女生也不差，也会懂得追求自己所爱，然而，羞愧还是女生的本性，为什么女生不敢主动追求男生？想知道原因吗？

首先她们会觉得如果被拒绝了，会很丢脸。如果失败了，可能也会被朋友取笑很‘cheap’，相反的，如果成功了，他们可能还会称赞你，说你厉害呢！

有听过“男追女，隔层山，女追男，隔层纱”吗？“男追女，隔层山” 表示女生很不容易被男生了解，更不容易追到手；“女追男，隔层纱” 表示男人不挑食，面对投怀送报的女生，难以拒绝.。导致女生的心理产生不会被珍惜的感觉。

无论是男还是女，在爱情上不敢主动的人，表面看起来是怕被拒绝，其实真正的原因是对自己没信心。长期对自己没有信心，就变得被动，应该调正自己的心态，主动向对方表示，并不是什么丢脸的事，你给对方机会，是他的福气。但是也要尊重对方说不的权利。

无论谁主动追求谁，中间隔着山还是纱，男生要有愚公移山的精神，女生还是可以有朦胧的美感，双方都能无遗憾于这一场遇合。加油吧！其实我本身也是被动的那一类，所以写写来鼓励自己和身边的朋友。